Post by The Dan on Sept 30, 2015 17:59:40 GMT 12
This email came out from Badboy's community this week. He's pretty clear on where he stands, and this is great advice on how to lead and manage investment levels. Full credit to Badboy - check out his site:
www.badboylifestyle.com/
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Rules of Dates & Dating
Here are some basic principles and rules of Dating I have developed in last few years for myself. I think its worth sharing.
Purpose of a dating, is to allow her to get to know you and "buy" more time to seduce her. We guys don't really care about dating , if it is up to us, we would go straight for sex. We do not need Wine & Dine. Most of girls unfortunately do not think like us. They want to get to know guy before they decide to sleep with him, they want to be sure that they "feel" something, that they feel connection and he's a guy she wants. For a girl if feels nice to be taken out, served like a princess, enjoy nice conversation and company, and not give anything in return. Let's leave that to "Nice guys".
We Badboy's do it differently.
Fallow the rules below and get really successful on dates
DATE RULE 1# - 3 dates sex
If you do not manage to have sex with her by 3rd date, dump her and move on. She is very likely waste of time and money. Some girls will try to date you for a month, do not be stupid and fall into that trap. If you cannot break her frame, move on. Be cool, give her 3 dates, if you see its going nowhere by 3rd date, move on. Your time is too valuable
DATE RULE 2# - 1 event date
Stop doing 1 event date, like dinner only, on each date do a few mini dates, this way you will accomplish more and she will feel she has been on lots of things with you. MOre places, more trust, more connection and energy.
DATE RULE 3# -avoid boring dates
Avoid dates that she has been million of times, Restaurants,cinema..etc.. Be different. Her confidence comes from repetition. she has done dinner date million of times its her territory. Let she plays our game. Be creative.Iceskating, salsa class, play games.. Physical dates!
DATE RULE 4# - Man sorts-out logistics
You do not take her where she wants to go, you take her where you want to go. You are the one who is sorting out Logistics. She has nothing to do with Logistics. The only reason why she is asking you where you taking her is so she knows how to dress! The moment you let her go to choose where she wants to go things will fall apart because she is controlling date and therefore outcome of a date.She has nothing to do with logistics.
DATE RULE 5# - PPF= 50eur
PPF = Price Per Fuck.
Do not spend more then 50-60 eur/usd in 2/3 dates till sex. If you spend more then that you are pumping up her value, and creating future problems.
DATE RULE 6# - No Gifts
NO gifts / flowers until she deserves them. Some guys tend to spend lots of money and attention to get into her panties. No gifts, and trips together until first sex happens. ( start of a relationship). Do not try to do things to impress her to get into her panties, that strategy does not work. She needs to impress you.
RULE 7# - Zero Tolerance on drama
If she starts to cause drama, and negative emotions in first 2 dates, end the date and send her home. This will probably repeat often. You do not need her. There are lots of drama and pshyo girls out there. On first / 2nd date you will see pre-signs of her craziness. Best what you can do for yourself is to kick her out from your life immidiatly. You are not her therapist. Move on. Plenty of fish in a sea
DATE RULE 8# - Be willing to walk away
Do not get sucked into mindset where you have to do all to make her Happy. Dating is not about making her happy. Its about both of you. Some guys fall into that trap, where they do everything for her, and forget themselves. Take her to places where you feel good, where you enjoy to be, When you are happy people around you can be happy as well. First satisfy yourself then her.
DATE RULE 10# - Keep Texting
Keep texting between dates. After she goes home from a date, she will wonder what do you think, how much do you like her... etc. Do not be needy and text immediately, let her wonder for 2-3 hours they text her that it was nice meeting her, and you like her company, and you think she is cool and interesting girl. Let she replies, if its positive, and she liked you as well its is a perfect moment to set up an next date... "Let's go to XX on Thursday". Get her used to 3-4 days between dates. You will need that later on in a relationship.
DATE RULE 11# - No relationship talk
No "relationship talk" with her before sex. Some girls will push you to explain them your plans with her, (she wants a relationship of course). Keep it vague. We will see...." what's written is stars for us, will happen". Only when you see how she behaves after sex ( 2 weeks test drive... you can talk about possible relationship)
www.badboylifestyle.com/
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Rules of Dates & Dating
Here are some basic principles and rules of Dating I have developed in last few years for myself. I think its worth sharing.
Purpose of a dating, is to allow her to get to know you and "buy" more time to seduce her. We guys don't really care about dating , if it is up to us, we would go straight for sex. We do not need Wine & Dine. Most of girls unfortunately do not think like us. They want to get to know guy before they decide to sleep with him, they want to be sure that they "feel" something, that they feel connection and he's a guy she wants. For a girl if feels nice to be taken out, served like a princess, enjoy nice conversation and company, and not give anything in return. Let's leave that to "Nice guys".
We Badboy's do it differently.
Fallow the rules below and get really successful on dates
DATE RULE 1# - 3 dates sex
If you do not manage to have sex with her by 3rd date, dump her and move on. She is very likely waste of time and money. Some girls will try to date you for a month, do not be stupid and fall into that trap. If you cannot break her frame, move on. Be cool, give her 3 dates, if you see its going nowhere by 3rd date, move on. Your time is too valuable
DATE RULE 2# - 1 event date
Stop doing 1 event date, like dinner only, on each date do a few mini dates, this way you will accomplish more and she will feel she has been on lots of things with you. MOre places, more trust, more connection and energy.
DATE RULE 3# -avoid boring dates
Avoid dates that she has been million of times, Restaurants,cinema..etc.. Be different. Her confidence comes from repetition. she has done dinner date million of times its her territory. Let she plays our game. Be creative.Iceskating, salsa class, play games.. Physical dates!
DATE RULE 4# - Man sorts-out logistics
You do not take her where she wants to go, you take her where you want to go. You are the one who is sorting out Logistics. She has nothing to do with Logistics. The only reason why she is asking you where you taking her is so she knows how to dress! The moment you let her go to choose where she wants to go things will fall apart because she is controlling date and therefore outcome of a date.She has nothing to do with logistics.
DATE RULE 5# - PPF= 50eur
PPF = Price Per Fuck.
Do not spend more then 50-60 eur/usd in 2/3 dates till sex. If you spend more then that you are pumping up her value, and creating future problems.
DATE RULE 6# - No Gifts
NO gifts / flowers until she deserves them. Some guys tend to spend lots of money and attention to get into her panties. No gifts, and trips together until first sex happens. ( start of a relationship). Do not try to do things to impress her to get into her panties, that strategy does not work. She needs to impress you.
RULE 7# - Zero Tolerance on drama
If she starts to cause drama, and negative emotions in first 2 dates, end the date and send her home. This will probably repeat often. You do not need her. There are lots of drama and pshyo girls out there. On first / 2nd date you will see pre-signs of her craziness. Best what you can do for yourself is to kick her out from your life immidiatly. You are not her therapist. Move on. Plenty of fish in a sea
DATE RULE 8# - Be willing to walk away
Do not get sucked into mindset where you have to do all to make her Happy. Dating is not about making her happy. Its about both of you. Some guys fall into that trap, where they do everything for her, and forget themselves. Take her to places where you feel good, where you enjoy to be, When you are happy people around you can be happy as well. First satisfy yourself then her.
DATE RULE 10# - Keep Texting
Keep texting between dates. After she goes home from a date, she will wonder what do you think, how much do you like her... etc. Do not be needy and text immediately, let her wonder for 2-3 hours they text her that it was nice meeting her, and you like her company, and you think she is cool and interesting girl. Let she replies, if its positive, and she liked you as well its is a perfect moment to set up an next date... "Let's go to XX on Thursday". Get her used to 3-4 days between dates. You will need that later on in a relationship.
DATE RULE 11# - No relationship talk
No "relationship talk" with her before sex. Some girls will push you to explain them your plans with her, (she wants a relationship of course). Keep it vague. We will see...." what's written is stars for us, will happen". Only when you see how she behaves after sex ( 2 weeks test drive... you can talk about possible relationship)